For family law attorneys like us,
we get paid to fight. To fight for you. To fight for what is right. But the
best advice we can give you during a child custody or divorce does not make us
any money and saves you far more than dollars and cents. It saves you time,
chaos, and sanity. Our best advice: PICK
YOUR BATTLES.
Easier said than done. Right?
Divorce and custody proceedings are full of emotional chaos and impossible
decisions. Making decisions is not always easy. As your guide, our team always
discusses the process and relevant laws with you. Then, we lay out your
options. Sometimes what is "right" or what the other party is
"supposed to do" does not happen. Although pursuing what is
"right” is not always your best option, going to war is easier than
choosing peace. For some clients, the fighting feels good and who can blame
them? Divorce and custody matters are hard. They tug at the very nucleus of our
emotions – family, finances, and personal struggles. But you must realize this
fight comes at a cost, roughly $225 to $325 an hour to be exact.
You need to decide what is worth
pursuing and what is not. Your attorney should guide you through this process.
A GREAT attorney is not always going to agree with you. They are going to have
you think about your course of action and tell you when they think you are
making the wrong call. Regardless, it is your call to make.
No divorce or custody case is
100% the same. Each case provides different circumstances to consider when
making these tough calls. When you are ready for a fighter both inside and
outside of the courtroom, give us a call at 605-777-1772. We will help you pick
the RIGHT battles.
